Is it okay that not all of our conversations are exciting/funny?

i have this same problem.. if we wanna call it a problem idk? haha but i think it means we need to get to know our boys better on a deeper level and also the guy is a little closed off we need to get more comfortable because sometimes my convos with him lack flirting and sometimes they are hot and steamy? i think it also depends on their moods and it is not personal